About Me
About Wendy McAra Psychology & Life Coaching is Really About YOU
It’s about how Wendy’s coaching packages and her book can move you past your old limiting story of who you are, release what has held you back or undermined you up till now, and show you how to manifest dreams, living the life you’d love.
She provides a soothing presence… respectfully engaging, challenging and guiding you to uncover your deep and hidden longings, then showing you how to transform them into reality.
Wendy McAra, MA (Psych)
PSYCHOLOGIST & LIFE COACH
My best-selling manifestation book
Create Abundant Possibilities
– Seven Steps to Manifest your Dreams
Wendy’s dream of sharing the gift of manifestation through her life-changing book, is now a reality. And… her book a best seller. If you’re ready to create the life you long for, this book is a treasure trove of practical insights about how to manifest your dreams.
Here you’ll learn the art of ScriptWriting – a simple, yet powerful technique to help you get clear on exactly what you want to bring into your life.
You’ll also find sample scripts and tips to guide you into transforming your life and bringing your deepest desires into reality. Buy the book and start your manifestation journey now.
Client Testimonials
“When I first met you, I was in a really unhappy relationship and I wanted out. ScriptWriting transformed my life.”
You helped me dare to visualise the relationship and partner I'd love. That gave me the courage and motivation to leave my ex-partner. I went travelling and in Italy, I met the love of my life. We've been married for a year and have started our family.
The difference between my ex-wife and my new partner is like night and day.
Wendy, I can't believe it. My new partner is exactly who I described in my script.
“I was pretty uncertain
about my future when
I came to see you”
Having refused the promotion which would have required yet another relocation to yet another country, I couldn't see where the next opportunity would come from. Taking the time we did to get in touch with what was really important to me in my career and then writing the script for my ideal position landed me my dream job. I can't thank you enough for what this has brought into my life.
“Before going on my overseas trip, I was worried I’d be lonely, not feeling like part of the group.”
I was frightened of being attacked or robbed on tour. After you encouraged me to imagine how it would be if it was beyond my wildest dreams, the trip I scripted was an unforgettably wonderful experience. Everything went well and I had the best time. Those experiences are like a bank account of good memories in the storage unit of my mind. Thank you
Real-Life Client Vignettes From the Book
Ollie’s Story
Ollie, a 40-year old engineer, admitted he felt invisible because of his highly critical and unpredictable father. He married a woman much like his father.
After an acrimonious divorce, he started seeing me once a month. Over a year or so his life transformed as he learned to turn down the volume of his inner critic and install an inner cheer leader. He set boundaries and improved his communication and listening skills. His confidence and self-esteem grew significantly, and he scripted a life he’d love.
In Ollie’s words, “As a kid, I never knew when my dad would be in a lousy mood. I had to keep watching him to see how I should behave. I’ve always put myself last. I’m a pleaser. Being acknowledged and appreciated is a big one for me, not just at work but in my life as a whole. Remember how I used to feel hopeless about the future? How I felt I was high on the list of being made redundant at the first pick? None of that is true anymore. Reframing my beliefs feels validating. It’s really changed the ball game at work. People are telling me ‘I appreciate what you’re doing.’ My boss said ‘You’re a gun!’ I’m not surprised any more. It keeps happening. I put it down to the reframes. I’m feeling super-sure of myself. I’ll keep projecting those (new) thoughts to the universe and hopefully it’ll keep happening. And it’s happening in my personal life too. My partner tells me how much she appreciates having me in her life. It’s going so well we’ve decided to move in together.”
Monique’s Story
Monique was a university student about to go on her first overseas trip – a Contiki Expedition type tour.
Given her tendency to depressive thinking, to increase her chances of having a great experience, I asked her ‘What’s important for you on this trip?’ What came up for her were things like: “I don’t get robbed and lose my passport and money” and “I’m not awkward and lonely, not fitting in with the group.”
To help her reframe her fears I simply asked ‘What will it be like instead, if it were the way you dream it could be?’ This time, she said: “It’s safe and peaceful and everything goes well, and “I fit into the group. We bond because we share experiences other people haven’t had together, and I make friends for life.”
When Monique returned, she described a holiday which had surpassed her dreams. I believe, had we not done this exercise, her trip may have been more like the one of her nightmares, rather than the one of her dreams.
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